bluesky doesnt have threading so i'll post this here so someone has a chance of reading the whole thing lol
still disorienting to get told "there are no really meaningful differences between men and women and also gender/sex is more complicated than a binary" internalize it, have everyone around me also say they internalized it and then get punished for talking like amab and afab people arent different by self described feminists. it feels like the modern reactionary has to talk like a social progressive while staying up to date on what bigotries the group still holds. a lot of trans women hate themselves so they're fine with pretty explicit misandry cause they like to lie to themselves and pretend that their fellow progressives respect their identity so of course hating males or treating anything masculine like it's a few drinks away from being a rapist or that any expression of aggression even if just rhetorical is evidence of abusive tendencies is fine actually cause they dont feel like their position in the group is compromised and of course they arent talking about them, they're talking about the bad trans women, the ones who act like men
they want you to be a token, they want to prove that men can be defanged and they still see you as a man and they fucking need you to perform their psychotic bigoted performance of femininity for them. you need to be a victim, you need to be meek, you need to be sorry. what they like about their imagination of the feminine is that it's supposed to act like a good little abuse victim, controllable
build yourself a feminine that is an agent in whatever context they exist in, build yourself a feminine that is capable of incredible violence, build yourself a feminine that's resilient to being boxed in and predicted, that's incapable of meeting expectations and as such leaves people uneasy with you. get in the face of these breeder freaks who expect modesty or at least conformity and be actively hostile to it. destroying the feminine as an object of abuse is the only way to stop the reproduction of the horrific gendered abuse that half the population is crippled with