afab only spaces justified with trauma are literally just fascist segregationist projects to see who is willing to accept abuse for the cause. there is no genuine discussion to be had here. if you accept concessions based on the fact that someone makes themselves sperg at their vibing out what biological sex someone fits in their head you accept all the logic of terf arguments. it doesnt matter that the person learned those behaviors in an unfortunate situation, it's just bigotry. there's no difference between men and women, between those born to the categories of afab and amab so either act like it or dont. paying lipservice to a nice ideal while acting in a way that runs counter to it is the bread and butter of fascists so pick a side