believing in slurs is a skill issue that makes you pointlessly predictable and it's easily exploited by reactionaries on all sides of a culture war, you can just look at someone's attempt to make you upset as something they do when they're on the backfoot, not reacting can often just give you massive advantage in the conversation too. reactionaries arent literate, they throw words like blunt objects for the reactions they produce in others, trip them up, they're not very good at deviating from the script