while i've always had the tendency to think differently from the people around me what really made a seemingly unbridgeable chasm between me and everyone else who wants to play politics was going to prison. even the radicals who pay lipservice to the idea that we live in captivity havent really gone out and felt the limits of their confinement. when you feel the bars of your cage it stops being possible to play nice with the citizens who run the prison and it becomes much harder to gain any traction for a "movement" (gang) or whatever if you're no longer able to recruit people who still believe the practice of confining creatures is acceptable in some circumstances
i have so much more respect for people who actually recognize their impulses for what they are because at least you can actually have a conversation about it
"cuteness" is such a disgusting concept. you're taught to associate this positive sounding little word with vulnerability and helplessness because it's the other side of the coin of patriarchal rape fantasies. bottoms are taught to want to make themselves cute because the only way to attract a top is by showing a vulnerability to be exploited, literally just bait, but tied in with it is the impulse to protect the cute object, to nurture it to infantilize it to make sure that the rapist doesnt just discard the bottom. they need to see the bottom as both prey and child because heterosexual sexuality is just pedophilic. this is barely disguised because people's ego's and superficial revulsion to pedophilia wont let them see it in themselves. sorry, you're not into dominance or submission, you're into pedophilia, deal with it or change
you will never be popular for going against social conservative sentiments, they will do everything they can to attack everyone who associates with you and will make sure that they're always speaking for you, telling your story, ensuring that they control your image, but in my experience it's not worth it trying to keep around people who can be so affected by these games of appearance or rely on others to paint the world for them
if you give any ground on this you will eventually surrounded by fascists who will do shit like (in the case of pop feminists), tell you that misandry doesnt exist, does exist and is good, and shouldnt be talked about because that means you're a misogynist all in the same breath
i think i have absolutely zero patience for moral bluffing. you can actually just not sperg out when someone breaks from whatever orthodox script they're not supposed to deviate from, you can just not act like a security system for your imagined community of likeminded people you imagine will back you in a fight. at it's core it's just religion and religious people are always trying to act like they're more than one person, like they're speaking for many when they talk and that's literally just an intimidation tactic. read it as the threat it is
i'm predicting this is going to happen with the word "bitch" if pop feminism keeps developing how it does
looking at how "retard" is developing into an "always slur" like the n word is quite frustrating because while it's in the process of being reclaimed by neurodivergent people, people who make rules and set standards for media and stuff are banning it more and more in the name of progress
funny how progressives only seem to like trans women who hate themselves or otherwise feel sorry about being male. anytime one of us has a spine we're called rapists and abusers out of nowhere because we're taking a "male" tone of voice. these are just conservatives who think women ought be meek, who like abuse victims, who like slaves. break their fucking faces
afab only spaces justified with trauma are literally just fascist segregationist projects to see who is willing to accept abuse for the cause. there is no genuine discussion to be had here. if you accept concessions based on the fact that someone makes themselves sperg at their vibing out what biological sex someone fits in their head you accept all the logic of terf arguments. it doesnt matter that the person learned those behaviors in an unfortunate situation, it's just bigotry. there's no difference between men and women, between those born to the categories of afab and amab so either act like it or dont. paying lipservice to a nice ideal while acting in a way that runs counter to it is the bread and butter of fascists so pick a side
grinding to disappear