@nyx @voidandnil Damn, okay, just read it. At first I wasn't sure where you were going, but tbh I have definitely observed myself that straight trans women aim to be an oppressor class and participate in violence against other trans women to be able to fit into that system, with words like brick and hon and intentionally "Sir"ing any trans women with a hint of queerness or who don't aim for the same goals as them.

Like they aren't even interested in competing over a man, you don't see them fight because the same man likes them. They just want to be oppressors and to withdraw their transness from queerness and it's genuinely so disgusting to me and why I feel so unsafe around them.

I also will say as a bisexual I am unfortunately still into men, and while I do wish for a girlfriend moreso, I'm so immediately turned off by how much men trip and fall over themselves to try to balance being "straight" and liking me, I want liking me to be a queer thing regardless of gender and thoroughly resist any attempt at anyone trying to put me in that lens because the goal of that lens is to police my expression and my thoughts at the end of the day, and it's become clear that even being a "bi wife" would not be enough if such a relationship was held to "hetero standards" which are just making me fit a mold that they've successfully molded other women into, which is why I haven't dated a man since before my transition started.

It's just such a fucked political landscape truly