@f00fc7c8 i've stopped trying to read those signs for their literal words, because its so rarely what they actually mean (and even more rarely can it actually apply to me, in the way i view gender, which is very heterogenous and not reducible to any particular boundary like "no straight people")
but, you kinda said it yourself imo, "if you have a good reason to use the resource..." then you should. if you think you're actively harming someone by your use of the resource yknow, i'd maybe rethink it, but, if you are deviant enough in your conception of gender as to actively disregard the man/woman dichotomy... uhhhh idk that's pretty queer i guess is all im saying lmao